Free · 18+ · Belgium

The kink scene, close enough to touch.

The parties, the rope workshops, the venues and the people who bring them to life. An app to let go in, with nothing spilling out of your phone.

Coming soon to Android.

Munches to meet, workshops to learn, parties to let go. You set your limits, and they are respected.

  • Shibari
  • Latex
  • Impact
  • Leather
  • Domination
  • Submission
  • Switch
  • Fetish
  • Bondage
  • Sensation
  • Roleplay
  • Suspension
  • Wax
  • Masks

Agenda

Your nights, already planned.

Parties, munches, workshops, classes and talks from the venues and collectives in your city. Sign up for free, accept the rules of the night, and your ticket waits at the door.

  • Party
  • Munch
  • Workshop
  • Class
  • Talk
An event page, with its organizer and spots

Home

People, not listings.

Home shows what the members and venues you follow are up to. You meet by following each other and crossing paths at events, and once the follow is mutual, the conversation opens.

A member's profile, with roles and practices

Limits

Your limits, your power.

Yes, maybe, no: your practices and limits are set before the first word. The compatibility view shows what you share, and what does not fit.

  • Yes
  • Maybe
  • No

Meet

A spank, always signed.

Meet shows members near you, one card at a time, no swiping. Skip, or give a spank, with a note if you like: they know it is you. If they spank you back, the conversation opens.

Meet: a member’s card, with Skip and Spank

Discretion

Discreet by default.

What you do at night is your business. Kinkslap is built so nothing spills out of your phone.

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New activity

What your lock screen shows, and nothing more.
  • Neutral notifications

    “New activity”, with no name or content, unless you change it.

  • An icon that gives nothing away

    A plain ring can replace the logo, and the app only opens with your face or fingerprint.

  • Never your location

    Others see your city and a rough distance, never where you are.

  • No nudity in public

    Photos are checked before they appear. The most intimate ones stay in conversations, blurred, and you choose to see them.

  • Your email stays private

    No password, no phone number. Nobody sees your address.

Organizers

For the venues and collectives of the scene.

No more juggling FetLife, Instagram, Eventbrite and WhatsApp. You announce your night, you choose who gets in, everyone gets their ticket. And every night has its own page, ready for your flyers.

The organizer space is free for life for founding partners.

An attendee's QR ticket

Come as you are.

Kinkslap is free. It opens in Belgium first, with the venues and collectives of the scene, and grows wherever the scene joins in.

Coming soon to Android.